I have relationship with my future wife from Philippines since 2015, I been there 7 times.
I can't go there anymore, last time I touched her face was 460 days ago . 2nd January 2020
I write numerous times on the immigration forum of Philippines without much success, I send emails to embassy of Philippines in Belgium , they reply me to wait longer..
To make things even worse she got sick, vertigo.. she is trying to walk now, rehabilitation going to take a while.
It's very hard for both of us, life is been put on hold but our biological clock is not.. we're getting older.
I'm getting closer to an age of 50, we are missing each other so very much and we don't have perspective, I can say more about our relationship but it's not make it more rosy..
Hopefully this agony will stop soon.
Best regards Steven